This question has been in the forefront of my mind lately.
In my mind and in my opinion, the answer to this question is a definite YES. You can also disagree with them on certain things and not be trying to force your opinion on them. In turn, allowing them to have their own opinion.
I believe that two adults should be able to discuss both sides of the matter even if in disagreement and come out of it with the agreement that you agree to disagree, if nothing else. If I ever post something and you don't agree--by all means share your point with me. This doesn't mean that I'll debate issues, necessarily. This just means that we are sharing each others' thoughts and opinions.
I love all of my friends. Yet, each one has different opinions and thoughts. If they were all the same how boring would that be?! Realizing that my opinions on certain matters may touch people in the wrong way...I've always had to keep my mouth shut when certain comments were made regarding certain issues. I suppose I will always have to do that to an extent.
However, if someone directly or even indirectly asks me a question regarding an issue...I feel that person is opening a door to discuss the matter and that it is alright for me to give my opinion. Not doing so would be,. as a matter of fact, not allowing me to have my own opinion, correct?
That to me is common sense. If you ask a question you should expect an answer. Isn't that how it usually goes?
On another note...please never assume that you know or understand where I stand on something WITHOUT asking me. Some may think that because of my religious stand that I have certain opinions / thoughts. Does your religion tell you what opinions and thoughts to have about everything??? Neither does mine.
I'm my own person and I have my own mind. If you don't know how I feel about something please do not assume. If something troubles you or you wonder where I stand on something, please just ask.
I'll answer. :)
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